New Courting Disaster Question

There’s a new question on the Courting Disaster Web site.

My girl friend was only with 2 guys before me. One was her ex and the other was some guy she went home with from a bar. I’ve been with many women (some more married than others) so this shouldn’t be an issue. But for some reason I’m obsessed with finding out all the info I can about the guy she went home with. How aggressive was she, what songs they danced to, where they did it. All the stuff I know I shouldn’t want to know but I do. I’ve asked her a few things but she gets uncomfortable and I am usually left with more questions. Given my sexual history I know I have no right to be asking but I can’t help it. What should I do? — Jealous Gigolo