Courting Disaster, my weekly comic about sex, love, and relationships updates every Friday. You’ll laugh your pants off.

This week’s question…

A reader writes… Q: I am married to a handsome man and have two beautiful young children. Recently, I admired someone from work and we had a short affair. Now, I just can’t get him off my mind. We still see each other, but only at work and we never really talk anymore. During our affair time, he told me he was single but later I found out that he has a girlfriend. I don’t know why, but I just can’t get him out of my mind. I always want to know if he thinks of me or if he’s watching me. I don’t want to destroy my marriage, but I can’t help it. What should I do?

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