New Courting Disaster Question

There’s a new question on the Courting Disaster Web site.

My husband and I have been married for almost 6 years. At first we had a very healthy love life, but in the past couple years I’ve developed health problems (ovarian cysts) that cause me extreme pain when we make love – to the point where I’m afraid to even try anymore. Having a healthy libido myself, this is making ME crazy – I hate to think about how my poor husband feels. The doctors don’t seem to be able to do anything and we’re starting to drift apart as a result. Also, he’s not the sort I can satisfy short of actual intercourse. Any suggestions, other than grit my teeth and bear it? — Pain in GA